You like the stuff in which you feel soul or a kind of connection that touches your heart. Without the connection nothing could be yours and you could be no one. You must need to feel soul whether it is relationship or any other thing. Life is up and down, and in F. Scott Fitzgerald words’ about love; it is progression and then regression. And it is true in every sense. No one could deny it.
Poems are always soulful, most of them. By the way who is your favorite poet? Mine is anyone who touches my heart and I prefer read poems a lot rather than fiction. Because I feel soul in them, and around bonfire, drinking wine, and remembering your love; what could be other best than poetry!?
We were in Rajasthan during a festival among lots of dunes of sand where the moon was shining bright and wind was blowing and we were in a tent celebrating my husband’s birthday. It was our first trip to land of sand, Rajasthan. It was awesomely beautiful experience witnessing the festival in Ajmer and staying in tent. I and my husband talked about lots of things that we haven’t talked about over the years just because of our busy office life, and it happens when you both work and don’t find to spend with each other.
I don’t know what to say to my husband on his birthday. I just wrote a short poem for him in a card with a gift that I gave him. The poem I took from a website, very beautiful where I found a great collection for happy birthday wishes for husband.
After reading the card my husband came to me and kissed on my forehead and our love sparked again that was flickering somewhere in our heart. All seven days we spent visiting the city. We were in each other’s arms and so happy that we were not over the years.
So to all couples I am going to share some points that I learn to spark your love again if it is flickering due to work pressure or some any other reason. Here are all the points below. Although there is no specific for this. All you have to do is your own evaluating the circumstances between you and your partner.
First of all, plan a trip provided you can find alone time to talk.
Switch off your mobiles during the trip and when you are in the middle of important conversation or where you just want to spend your time alone with each other.
Husband makes a first move to talk. Although there is no legal reason for it even wife can do it first. Because it is about love not about ego.
Talk on a subject you like or start from somewhere. Just find point.
Go to dinner or for a short romantic walk. And you must express your emotions what you think about each other rather than hiding. After all you are husband and wife. Appreciate each other. Share something from your childhood or the things your life partner don’t know about it.
Say I love you. Say it from your mouth rather than just emoting through your eyes. Sometimes saying it matters.
Just without any reason kiss her on her forehead. The emotive touch can do lots of wonder.
Take part in some competition or in an activity. You must be together in it. It helps to open out.
And always find time to travel together whether it is short trip or long.
On the whole you must spend time together if you have a great busy life whether it is an hour or some. You are husband and wife. Don’t take each other for granted. Sometimes little distances could bring great. At the end of the day it all depends on how you understand each other. Keep the fire of your love burning, not flickering.
